"The fundamental polarity of human life between what is and what ought to be, between lack and fulfillment, between determination and freedom, is not abnormal; it is the norm. Every person is exposed to it because of the inescapable structure of human formation." (Adrian van Kaam, The Transcendent Self, Dimension Books, 1979, 172.)

The Courage to Speak






Sometimes we hold things inside that  do harm to us and others. A pain that is not transformed will surely be transmitted..

Here is a remarkable woman who shares what it is like to say the unsayable - click here to watch the video